Mr. Handson walked into the stacks while I was attempting to bring order out of ciaos in the James Patterson section. Knee deep in the prolific writer's works, I was a trapped audience. I worked here and could not slip out the back door. I provided new ears for Mr. Handson's exhaustive, yet amusing, tales. I didn't mind at all. This was the library after all, I had to take what I could get. What ever walked in the front door.
"I lost my cheek in the Korean War," Mr. Handson explained. Looking at his face, I could see both cheeks, present and accounted for, so I was confused. Which one was missing? Maybe Mr. Handson was referring to a cheek he used for sitting.
"Oh, they replaced it with pig skin in China," Mr. Handson went on, touching his left cheek tenderly, or was it his right? I cannot remember now.
" I was never the same," Mr. Handson went on, not the least bit winsome or sad or anything like that.
"Oh, dear," I replied "That must have been very unsettling for you!"
And so began our library relationship.
Mr. Handson had it in his heart to build an airplane in his back yard. I located book after book on airplane building. Tons of build-an-airplane-in-your-backyard books. Finally I sat him down at a public computer to download his final plans.
I taught Mr. Handson how to click, double click, drag and google. Took my entire lunch time plus more.
Then I left him alone. Before I made it back to the check-out counter bells and whistles sounded from Mr. Handson's PC. Bells and whistles. Sounded like maybe the president or the pope was coming through. Then a yellow and red banner flashed angrily at the top the screen: WARNING! WARNING! CLASSIFIED MATERIAL! CLASSIFIED MATERIAL!
Then an official looking FBI badge came onto the screen.
Man. I though the police were going to come running in. I had only left Mr. Handson alone for about 5 seconds.
"somepinkflowers, you put Mr. Handson on the computer?" each librarian asked me in turn when they showed up to check out the commotion, everyone of them rushing. "Mr. Handson? On a computer?? Mr. Handson???"
In February Mr. Handson brought me a gift. Hand-made. He was so proud. It was a small, table-top easel complete with adjustable and sliding this and that for holding a canvas.
I thought he had been working on his airplane.
"I made this for you, somepinkflowers," Mr. Handson said, pushing the wooden treasure into my hands. "It did not cost me a thing. I was going to put a drawer in the bottom but that would have made it too heavy for you to carry."
He would not let me give him any money, or even trade a drawing, as that would mean, if the easel became broken, then 'he would be obliged to fix it.'
I think this is going to be one of those pay it forward things. We shall see.
I have been so fortunate lately.
French Paul, one of my library volunteers, gave me a bottle of his homemade limoncello. We share a love for hiking in the Cinque Terre and like to outdo each other on the dangerousness of each leg of the public footpath overlooking the Mediterranean Sea.
"The famous Via del'Amore, between Riomaggiore and Manarole is easiest to walk but take care with your heart, somepinkflowers," warns French Paul, wading through his accent as if it were limoncello itself, thick from the freezer.
Truth is, I left part of my heart in Vernazza under a bright yellow umbrella in a seaside piazza. Who knew anchovy pizza could taste so yummy? I ate the whole thing.
I put the new copy of the Sam Cook CD on Tom's request list at the library. So then Tom made me a mix for my Bose wave. That is how these things happen.
Creative Debbie awarded me with this last month because I made her day. That is such a nice thing to say, I think. Her roundy-headed art folks always make my day, too.
And nature photographer extraordinaire Janson honored me this way. I am embarrassed but honored by such thoughts of kindness, such demonstrations of appreciation. When people do things like this I am proud to be human.
No matter how hard you try, you cannot get away from the generosity of people who want to share.
You have to just let them.
Last month while biting down on a piece of dark chocolate-covered nuts I cracked a crown. Valentine candy cracked my old tooth. That crown had been in my mouth for years. We were old friends. That piece of dentistry had been preformed before my nephew was born and now he has a teenage daughter. Time sure can pass by, dentally speaking.
Plus, I nearly swallowed the hunk of enamel.
"Happy Valentine's Day to me! " I thought, savoring the chocolate still. A new crown would be, what, $1000? Airplane fare to Athen is what that is. Counting the taxi to the airport on this end.
Ha!
Little did I know.
Like cleaning one little spot on the wall in your living room can force you to paint your entire house and then buy new carpet, things tend to escalate. One thing leads to another. A tooth implant cannot be done until there is strong bone. All God's chil'ren gotta have strong bones.
I am sitting here now with a bone graft in my jaw. Bone from some person I don't even know.
I want to thank this person for his/her bone but I don't know how. The bone-donor is no longer around to enjoy Valentine chocolates, limoncello or anchovy pizzas. The bone-donor can no longer enjoy the feel of an honest and heart-felt 'thank you so much.'
So I am thanking everybody else.
I am thanking Jenny for sending me the beads and charms you see up there in the three green dishes. She found out I was into beading and sent those my way. I have been making bits of jewelry like they were Johnny Depp dripping with bobs and trinkets.
I am thanking Steph for the copy of Mondays with Maxine she sent my way. Pulled from her blog, Steph's book is about nature's marriage to hope. A gigantic pumpkin named Maxine grows a personality along with her bulk. I KNEW it would make a great book and I so love when I can say, "I told you so!" about something that turns out cool.
I am thanking Glenn for the ship-on-a-bottle painting he did for me in honor of my favorite beach. I am his library go-to person when he needs reference photos for his sign business. Last week we were all about photos of shrimp. Before that it was locomotives. I just never know.
I am thanking my sister for the silver hoop bracelet and the little herb pots from here. My cat and I both love the the little pots filled with rosemary, basil and more. I am thanking Janet for the magazines on beading. I am thanking Carol for the flat of pink petunias which I will be planting tomorrow.
I am thanking Debbie, Janson, Paul, Tom, and Mr. Hanson. Thank you all for thinking of me and sharing.
No offense, Mr. Hanson, but I am glad my bone graft did not come from a pig. Your cheek turned out fine but I don't eat pork and would rather not be wearing any either.
I think I am the same, Mr. Handson, even with this otherness inside me taking root.
Maybe I am more thankful these days for people who share.
Thank you, thank you all so much.
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